Pete Wilder
| Pete Wilder | |
|---|---|
| Private Practice & Grey's Anatomy character | |
| First appearance |
Grey's Anatomy: "The Other Side of This Life (Part 1)" 3x22 Private Practice: "In Which We Meet Addison, a Nice Girl From Somewhere Else" 1x01 |
| Last appearance |
Grey's Anatomy: "The Other Side of This Life (Part 2)" 3x23 Private Practice: "Gone, Baby, Gone" 5x22 |
| Created by | Shonda Rhimes |
| Portrayed by | Tim Daly |
| Information | |
| Aliases | Pete |
| Gender | Male |
| Occupation |
Physician at Seaside Health & Wellness (former) Physician at Pacific Wellcare Center (former) Physician at Oceanside Wellness Group (former) Physician with Doctors Without Borders (former) Owner of the Infectious Diseases practice in Beverly Hills (former) |
| Title | M.D. |
| Family | Frances Wilder(mother) (deceased) Adam Wilder(brother) |
| Spouse(s) | Anna Wilder (deceased) Violet Turner (widow) |
| Significant other(s) | Meg Porter Addison Montgomery Lisa King |
| Children | Lucas Wilder (son with Violet) |
Dr. Peter "Pete" Wilder is a character on the Grey's Anatomy spin-off Private Practice. He is portrayed by actor Tim Daly.
Pete works at the Oceanside Wellness Center as a naturopathic doctor and licensed herbalist. He graduated from medical school and practiced traditional western medicine for a number of years before spending five years in China studying alternative medicine. Pete’s medical practice combines eastern and western medicine in an integrative approach, and he is often asked to provide expectant mothers with holistic birthing plans. Pete has also lectured locally and internationally on the subject of Oriental and Eastern Medicine.
During Dr. Addison Forbes Montgomery's first visit to Oceanside Wellness, Pete and Addison establish a teasing and often flirtatious relationship. Addison initially labels Pete a “quack,” but she allows the “cute hippy boy” to treat her with acupuncture. Although Pete is immediately attracted to her, he promises their mutual friend, Dr. Sam Bennett, that he will stay away from Addison. However, after finding Addison crying over her newly discovered infertility, Pete kisses her to prove that she isn’t “dried up.” Addison seems open to pursuing a relationship with Pete, but is warned off by Sam. According to Sam, Pete is a serial monogamist, unable to emotionally connect with any woman since the death of his wife. Pete's last foray into office romance was apparently disastrous, and resulted in the unnamed OB/GYN's sudden departure from the practice. In response, Oceanside Wellness instituted a strict "no consorting" rule.
Pete's relationship with his wife is somewhat mysterious and he appears reluctant to discuss their marriage. During a visit to her grave on the anniversary of her death, we discover Anna Wilder died in 2001, at the age of 40. (In "The Other Side of This Life," Sam stated that Pete’s wife had died eight years prior. However, in a subsequent interview, Tim Daly said that there is some confusion as to whether Anna died six or eight years prior, which was finally decided to be six years prior.) In a discussion regarding a patient, Pete hints to the other doctors that he stayed in an unhappy marriage because his wife was sick, and that they were unable to make the marriage work. Pete eventually tells Addison that he went to bed with his wife on a Tuesday night and when he awoke the following Wednesday morning, she was dead. He further states that no night was perfect during their marriage, not even their wedding night. This information was the most that Pete has ever divulged to any of his co-workers about his wife. During a second visit to his wife's grave, Pete unleashes his pent-up anger to his wife's headstone. After stating that Anna was "a mean, cold bitch" and that he hated her, Pete softens and apologizes for not being able to save her. Pete later reveals to Violet that at the time of Anna's death, they had been trying to conceive a child.
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