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Emotional symbiosis


Emotional Symbiosis is when an individual has the limited capacity to be aware of, respect, appreciate, comprehend the subjectivity of another. This occurs in the phase of early development when a child is completely dependant, and both physically and emotionally closely bonded with their mother. Most people suffer from Emotional Symbiosis, and it is very common because its origins are in the early childhood treatment of babies. People who have Emotional Symbiosis tend to put others down in order to make themselves feel as if they have all of the right answers.Emotional Symbiosis can be passed down through generations, and can have a negative impact onto a family's life.

In Erik Erikson's Psychosocial Theory, he believes that once babies are born, the first phase that they have to go through is figuring out whether the people that they are around are trustworthy or untrustworthy. Babies begin to trust the people that are around them by giving them their basic needs – care, food, and attention. Once infants have a bond with a person that has fulfilled their needs, they begin to put their trust into that individual.

Once infants begin to form into toddlers, they begin to test out their freedoms and the extent that they should go with their freedoms. For example, a baby may want to play with the scissors on the ground, but once a parent snatches those scissors away from them, they begin to realize what they are expected to touch and not to touch. Also, they feel shameful because they notice the unhappy expressions that are on their parent's faces.

As children began to grow into their early childhood phase, they begin to take charge of their actions and see how far they can go until someone stops these actions. A child may shred paper on the ground and laugh, but once they get caught, they will feel guilty because they know that they were not supposed to do that certain action. Again, in this phase, children try to find out the extent that they can go until someone stops them.

As a child begins to grow, they fully realize that they are children are expected to act in a certain type of manner. A question that children may ask themselves in this phase is, "Can I Make It In The World Of People And Things?". Children typically began to realize how small they are in the world during this phase, and how much they are able to achieve on their own.

In this phase, peer influence really begins to take control of an adolescent's mind. Children began to wonder, "where do I truly belong?", and the way that most children find out who they really are is through peer influences, which can be positive influences or negative.

When an individual is transforming into a young adult, a common question in their mind is, essentially, "can I love?". In this phase, an individual begins to wonder if there is someone for them in the world, if they will ever find love, or if love just isn't for them. Also, they wonder if it's better to be in a relationship, single, or just completely be alone.


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